A lot of people have been made to believe that money is the only thing a man can offer a woman to keep a lasting relationship.
Well, that may be true to a high degree.
But why the increase in divorce each and every day, globally, even from highly well-to-do relationships, huh?
That’s to show you that money is not the only factor that makes a relationship last longer.
Although, dating in Nigerian now tells us how far a lady can go in dating up to 6 men who give a lot of cash, but that’s not in marriage.
In the age where “true love” between partners seems to be a myth, a well-to-do woman expects even more than money- she already has it, right?
That’s the purpose of this article.
Hey, I’m your John. In this article, I’ll write about 6 things a man can offer a woman who already has her money in a relationship.
Love and Care
If you love someone , you naturally care for that person, right ?
Caring can have so many forms.
- External care: showing affection from the outside like asking her how she is doing, if she wants to go out to a concert.
How she slept last night, hugging her , kissing her and making her feel comfortable and safe.
- Internal(silent): taking notes of her health, covering her with a blanket when she is asleep improperly.
Thinking about what lifestyle, job, daily routine would be best for her, thinking about her likes and dislikes
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As most of us learn with time, love is but an idea in our mind, a construct based on the kind of exposures that we have grown up with.
But usually, as most of us again learn with time, healthy relationships are based on the strong foundation of companionship.
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Respect is a combination of appreciation, admiration and recognition of a person being worth something. It can feel at times esoteric but most people understand respect.
True respect is seeing someone, flaws and all, and still feeling appreciation of their unique talents, gifts and insights. It is not expecting perfection nor is it beating someone into submission.
When we love and respect ourselves we treat others with respect and we receive the same respect in return.
A secure relationship is one where love flows both directions, simple. One person cannot make a relationship healthy or secure because relationship is a two-way street.
What a secure relationship looks like
- The people involved do not control each other.
- The people involved are not jealous or possessive of each other.
- They do not have to know at every moment where the other person is.
- They do not check up on phone texts or social media and do not demand an accounting of all the time spent every day.
- They communicate openly and honestly, even about things the other person might not want to hear.
- They share their thoughts, feelings, and ideas without fear.
- They do not judge one another.
- They accept normal human failings, flaws, and imperfections, and forgive reciprocally one another’s errors.
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Sex is a way that connects two people in a way that they have never experienced before, it builds an indirect relationship between them, just like a bond.
Men often choose a woman based upon the sex and end up falling in love, while women generally choose a man based upon the love they feel, and end up enjoying it.
Studies show that sex solves more problems than real face to face conversations ! in fact I have written something that’ll clear things –
Research shows that sex releases a feel-good chemical in the brain, which reduces stress levels.
Communication is vital in any relationship. Think mental togetherness.
Planning together, looking forward together, and facing difficulties together only works when there is mutual agreement.
You can’t build trust without communication. You can’t express love properly without communication (yes actions speak louder than words, but in a relationship words are important too).
Remember they all create impressions and memories that you’ll go back to in future. That’s why they are pillars that need each other to stand and form relationship.
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Experiment each of them to see what works for your partner, and continue on the same thread.
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