My Crush Doesn’t Like Me Back What Do I Do? How to Make Him Ask You Out

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My crush doesn’t like me back what do I do? Loving someone who doesn’t even like you at all can be so painful, it makes you wonder if life is even worth living.

As a man, I know that feeling. It takes so much time to get someone to love, and that person to reciprocate that love.

Men may not fall in love for certain reasons. It might be your personality, their past experiences…In fact, some men are afraid of the vulnerability that comes with opening up to other women…

Why Does My Crush not Like Me Back?

Below, I’ll share some keys that will make you attract and gain the heart of your crush. It also answers the question “reasons why your crush doesn’t like you”.

Exercise, Keep Fit, Eat Good

This shows you want what you crave and that you’re willing to get it despite the opposition in front of you.

Be Mentally Sane

For the most part. It makes it harder to fall for an unstable and mentally insane person.

Have a Unique Personality

Be your own person, but be different from the rest of the crowd. Have stories to tell and experiences to share, have that addictive personality.

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Learn New Skills

If you can pull off crazy magic tricks or dance well or sing or play an instrument, people are more likely to be drawn to you as well. 

People like people with skills- those that they lack, especially with opposite sex.

Whatever the reason is, rather than giving bunches of theories, I’ve put together simplified practical hacks to answer the question “My crush doesn’t like me back what do I do?” and start the “I love you” lifestyle you’ve dreamt of.

Please get yourself a cup of coffee and walk into a quiet room where it’s only you and me communicating. I have good news for you!

How to Make Your Crush Fall in Love With You Without Talking

More than making him like you back, you want to show him that you’re everything he’s ever wanted, but how?

1. See him a lot

make a guy to ask you out by seeing him alot

Familiarity breeds attraction. The more you see someone, the more attracted they will become to you. This goes regardless of how attractive you actually are or how attractive they initially found you.

In the same way, studies show that just seeing someone frequently can boost how attractive you think they are. Here is…

What to do

Get some face time with him. Do this only if it can be done naturally; don’t be a stalker and show up at places where you think he’ll be … well, don’t do that too often anyway!

It’s fine if, for example, you were invited to a birthday party and normally wouldn’t have gone, but you know he’ll be there, so that changes your mind.

If you see him a lot and he’s had ample opportunity to take things to the next level and he isn’t doing so, it’s because he doesn’t want to.

Familiarity breeds attraction, but it can also breed contempt. Remember there are two sides to every coin, and you need to go with what your gut is telling you, not just blindly follow a series of steps.

If you feel pretty strongly that he’s not interested, move on. Someone else out there will think you’re amazing. But if you think there’s a chance, he could be attracted to you, use this to make him more interested.

2. Ask for Small Favors

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Ask them to do small favors for you. Nothing that requires much effort, things like can you hand me the remote please? or

Can you throw my sack of garbage away since you are passing the trash can on your way? or would you be so kind as to hold the door please?

I know what is going through your mind. you think they will get irritated with you asking for them to do things you could do for yourself.

You think it’s a way to get you to like them and you already do so that’s a waste of time, right?

It doesn’t work that way. You are not understanding what really happens in their head. That’s why you are in the friendzone.

What really happens in their head, especially when they start to wonder why they do all this shit for you, is that their subconscious mind begins to say I must really like this person. 

If I didn’t like them, I wouldn’t be doing all these things for them.

And their subconscious mind convinces them that they love you. Then it becomes very difficult for them to see that they are being manipulated.

There is no way to change their mind as long as you keep getting them to do little things for you that you could just as easily do for yourself.

The strongest relationships are between people who are constantly asking each other for favors. They bond in a way that is a little too close for other people to understand.

3. Ask Him for a Dinner

make a guy to ask you out by inviting him for dinner

Dinner, never lunch. Why dinner and not lunch? Lunch is for business meetings. Dinner implies romantic aspirations. Did he say yes? Okay, that’s the first firewall.

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When setting the date ask two questions.
  • Is there a preference you have regarding food? and,
  • What do you plan to wear so that I may dress to match?

The first is to prevent food-borne allergies or preferences in tastes from ruining the evening.

The second is to ensure that embarrassment on that front is minimized. If your date is wearing a suit or dress, don’t show up in jeans.

During the date stay away from three topics. Politics, religion, and exes. Politics and religion are issues to save for the third date.

Exes are a topic to save until after the six-month mark.

NB: If you are not over your ex you should not be dating.

Bill paid? Good. Date isn’t over though. Is there a museum or park or something along those lines in your area? If there is, go there.

Otherwise, come up with some activity that keeps you in close proximity to one another and preserves the lines of communication.

This may just mean going to a bar but ensure that the bar is quiet enough to allow communication.

A movie is right out of the option. Movie theatres effectively discourage talking.

Dinner done? Good. Are you thinking about him? Keep things simple on the phone. Tell him that you enjoyed yourself. Ask him if he enjoyed himself as well.

Did he? If yes, proceed, the journey will be continued by him from there, promise!

If no, pack it in and find someone else.

Most of the steps above are tricks and hacks designed to make you get their foot in the door- but men still have their decisions.

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Love Story Blog. Top 2 Love Story Blogs to Read Online

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Why Search for a Love Story Blog or Watch Love Stories?

That’s because we get hope from them. Many of us imaging ourselves as the main character, and at the end we get hope. I mean we actually live in love for a moment and feel loved. When they survive, we can survive too. That’s what a love story blog can do for you.

What’s in it?

I have handpicked the 2 best love story blog (s). One from Africa and the second, which is a world best story blog. The love stories are written by individuals with different love ordeals…

In this article I’ll share two blogs / sites that share such stories. My approach to this is to make sure that I share love story blogs with non-fiction stories.

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Ebony Story – Short Love Stories Blog

Are you looking for an African based love story blog? Ebony story is one of the leading African platforms where people read and share fresh, interesting African stories online.

Story Genre include:

Romance stories, Adventure stories, Action stories, Spiritual stories, Horror stories. They also feature the Novels, poems and songs.

Language

English

Integration

Web only

Pros

Free – No access/ registration fees required
Sign Up – No login required to start reading
Free access to post your story to the world
Short and straightforward stories

Cons

Ebony story was founded in the year 2017 by two brothers: Eze Louis and Eze Chima.

Wattpad – Love Story Web and App

With over 90million+ monthly visitors as claimed by the platform, Wattpad is a world widely served platform that creates an audience who can directly interact with the writers and share their opinions with fellow readers.

From my experience, although Wattpad has copyright issues due to the free access for users, there are over 665 million story uploads in total, which is an endless route for someone in search of romance and love stories.

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Registration

For tasks such as, Editing, creating, or reading stories, view profiles, comment or vote stories and post messages requires a registration.

Is Wattpad a Love Story Blog?

Yes. Just like Ebony story, Wattpad allows writers to publish user-generated content of different genres and for different groups.

Integrations

Android, iOS, Web.

Language

English, other 49 available languages. (actual count of: 32 languages).

Pros

Access to 665 million posts, your choice
Free, (unless you get Premium to turn off ads)
Multilingual – In up to 50 different languages
Good for learning or practising a new language
Free access to share your story to the world

Cons

Signup – Registration required to start reading
Categories – Not solely for love stories.
Comprises both fiction and non-fiction stories
Lots of unfinished products

Note: Although this site wholly requires an account registration to gain access to this website, it can still be accessed via clicking the links to their user-created stories or to their account profiles.

Wattpad was founded in December 2006; 14 years ago by Allen Lau and Ivan Yuen.

Bottom line

Both Ebony story blog and Wattpad are good and secure. Also, Ebony story is never an alternative for Wattpad, hands down. However, Ebony story is an African love story blog with non-fiction stories.

So there you have it. Read endlessly as you enjoy your moments with your favourites.

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Cute Love Stories to Tell your Girlfriend. Top 3 Cute Bedtime Stories

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My Cute Love Storylines

That moment after I invited her for a mini date at night, I was lost in thought about whether to tell her how beautiful she was, how I felt the first time I saw her. Hmmn, distorting the grave silence was even my first concern.

I cleared my throat as I broke the silence. She was looking deep inside my heart. I could thoroughly read from her face.

We’ve been on a blind date for a month. That day, we met for the first time, so, it was a moment that we spent a lot of time together. I love reading love stories and it saved me that night.

In this post, I’ll share 3 different cute love stories you can tell your girlfriend. Depending on how creative you are, you can narrate with the Plus(+) and Minus(-) signs in few minutes.

The Purpose of these Love Stories

These stories are utterly emotional, and will create a new bond between you and your girlfriend. She will love you 1,000 times more.

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Cute Love Stories to Tell your Girlfriend

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Heartbreak

Source: Ebony story, Written By: Olaoluwa

Women they say are weaker vessels, but the people who brought the assertion forgot to add that they are also a wicked vessel too.

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I’m Adam. The first child & the first male child of my parent’s 6 years old marriage then.

Ever since I was 5 and have known the story of Adam in the bible, I’ve always been careful not to take apples from any female folks.

While I was in the institution, l’ve got lots of female admirers but I’ve always tread softly and managed not to get involved in dating.

In as much as I tried, my heart failed me. I am this type of guy that gets emotionally attached to someone easily and that was where my problem started.

I managed to be in a mini-relationship with a couple of girls. Is it Jennifer? The Edo girl I met during our matriculation party ceremony?

Our relationship was like an El-classico during the reign of Mourinho and Guardiola in Spain. We never got along even for a week.

Within 3 months, I couldn’t cope with it anymore. I broke up the relationship.

Ngozi! The Anambra babe! My relationship with her started to become rosy and loving. We met at one of the cafeteria in my department and I realized she was from the music department.

Rehearsal today, performance at the multipurpose hall tomorrow. She almost finished my money.

The moment I realized my bank account was giving a red alert, I had to run away from her.

Nkiru, ljeoma, Fatimah the Fulani girl, Mercy. In fact, I can’t name them all. In summary, I have had about 11 short stints in relationships between my four years of stay in Owerri.

I suffered lots of heartbreaks and it was only by his grace that I managed to pass out with a 2.11 GP.

Two years later after NYSC during my master’s programme, I met Gift. The girl is so beautiful.

In fact, she was like a God sent. She drew me closer to God. Meanwhile, little did I know she was drawing me close to my grave too. My fellow readers, beware of church girls!

It’s been over a year into our relationship and no doubt, I know my search for a wife is definitely over. Gift was definitely the one for me.

One day, she called me and said we will have to fast for 100days to seek the face of the lord before I can introduce her to my family and vice versa.

I never thought twice about it. 20days into the fasting, I was getting lean. My friend, Kelechi called me to order that Gift can’t be trusted.

On the 76th day of my fasting, I received a call from one of my classmates to come to St. Anglican church, Ikot-Ekpene.

Getting there, I saw Gift, in a wedding gown with another guy in a white suit. It was Gift’s wedding.

I couldn’t believe my eyes. My body stopped working the moment I got to the gate of the church.

The bride and groom were just coming out of the church and I could see Gift beaming with smiles. This was surely the greatest heartbreak I have ever suffered in my life.

For the record, I’ve suffered heartbreaks more than how Owen Hargreaves suffered injury in his entire footballing career.

I slumped and everything went black.

I never knew how long I had passed out but I met myself in the hospital. At first, I couldn’t recall what happened but sooner, it crept back into my memory again.

Gift is gone. 76days of fasting was just for nothing. How could she have broken my heart when all I have done was to love her unconditionally! Is this love?

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The Undying Love

Source: I Want To Go Home. Film

When the Japanese Tsunami hit in 2011, Yusao Takamutsu was at work as a bus driver going about his day.

His wife was also at work at her office building.

A massive Tsunami swept across the coast of Japan. Sirens sounded. News stations flooded the airwaves.

He desperately began trying to get into contact with his wife.

Half an hour after the alarm sounded, he received a text message from his wife, “I just want to be home.”

In the days following the Tsunami, surveying the apocalyptic wreckage, it became increasingly clear that his wife hadn’t made it.

Yusao Takamutsu was stricken with grief. “She will always be next to me, physically and mentally,” he said. ‘I miss her, I miss the big part of me that was her.”

In the years since, he felt a deep obligation to honor the final text message he received from her. He wanted to bring her home.

He went and learned scuba diving and began searching for her body. It was difficult as he wasn’t naturally good in the water, but became certified and got better at it with time.

Since 2011, Yusao Takamatsu has been returning to the waters near his home town every week to resume his search for his wife’s remains, hoping to honor her last request and bring her home.

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Michelle and Barack Obama

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One night President Obama and his wife Michelle decided to do something out of routine and go for a casual dinner at a restaurant that wasn’t too luxurious.

When they were seated, the owner of the restaurant asked the president’s secret service if he could please speak to the First Lady in private.

They obliged and Michelle had a conversation with the owner. Following this conversation President Obama asked Michelle, “Why was he so interested in talking to you? ”

She mentioned that in her teenage years, he had been madly in love with her.

President Obama then said, “So if you had married him, you would now be the owner of this lovely restaurant,” to which Michelle responded, “No. If I had married him, he would now be the President.”

Hope you liked the 3 cute love stories.

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Formal Meeting Rules. 10 Meeting Ethics in Business – USA

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Herb Cohen, USA, the world’s foremost expert on the art of negotiation, shared some formal meeting rules. Read and download for free.

Why Follow Rules in a Meeting?

Following rules keep pretty much everything in order. Generally, rules often create an ideal environment for people to co-exist, thus creating order and peace especially in a topic like this where we have professionals from different fields.

If you want to take your conversation to the next level in a meeting, you must create a first impression by following the specific rules for a formal meeting before you take it one step up.

In this article, I will open up to you the strict rules and orders to follow in a formal meeting. This article expresses the rules and ethics in both physical and virtual meetings.

So let’s get straight into it…

10 Formal Meeting Rules

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Mind the Time!

Be on time, or be 5 minutes early if possible. No one likes to wait or listen to stupid excuses… Appreciate others time & schedule by being on time and finishing on time.

Herb Cohen, USA, the world’s foremost expert on the art of negotiation, shared how one person called another a liar at a summit.

“We were supposed to begin at 10.00 A.M, and three of us were present at that time. While waiting for the fourth person to arrive, those already present kept glancing at their watches.

Finally, twenty-five minutes after the hour, Mr. Tardy walks in”.

“Ahem, I’d like to apologize somewhat for being a bit late,” he said. He didn’t stop there. “Although it looks like I’m twenty minutes late, I’m really not” When I first got…

Truly, we realized we were dealing with a person who was immature and unreliable. Unintentionally, he had affected the level of trust.”

What should he have done?
✒If you are twenty-five minutes late, you ought to say, “Please forgive me. I’m terribly sorry for keeping you waiting. I’m almost an hour late.

✒Everyone is busy. When you are late, the other person feels devalued. Being late says, my time is more important than yours. If this happens, you need to call and be responsible for your actions. Don’t make excuses, just be straight. “I am running 25 minutes late”

Check Your Attire!

Always do your research to be sure you present a relatable visual image to your audience.

✒Even if the future looks bright, please avoid wearing sunglasses on your head or face during a business meeting. Worse, you could be viewed as untrustworthy in certain industries and cultures.

Silent or Switch Off your Cell Phone

Having your cell phone in front of you during a business meeting is a distraction to both you and your clients and it sends a negative message that you don’t mind interrupting your meeting for something inconsequential

In today’s information age, managing emails, text messages, and phone calls takes considerable time. During business meetings, whether at your office, the office of a client, Cell phones should be turned off or on silent and be out of sight during business meetings.

Don’t be Desperate

Business likes winners – if you are one, show it; if you’re not one yet, showcase your winning expertise. Try not to Appear Desperate.

If you want business from someone, remind them periodically of your existence; don’t expect them to remember you from one conversation or trade show meeting.

Master Communication Techniques

Study various communication styles and learn how to identify an individual’s style of communication. This will allow you to approach the person with the most effective communication techniques.

✒You must be a good listener. There is no point imposing your views on others without some debate. No one has a monopoly on good ideas or good advice.

Formal Business Rule 6 : Good Gesture

✒When you’re meeting a new client, or customer, take the time to introduce yourself and build a rapport. Follow up after the meeting and discuss possible businesses.

When asked for a business card, stop what you’re doing, greet the person asking and show interest in him/her. Never turn your back on the prospective customer. If you don’t have a business card, explain that you ran out, ask for his or her card and follow up.

Also, stand when meeting a new client or shaking hands. Remaining seated while being introduced or shaking hands is disrespectful. Pretend like the person you are meeting is of some interest to you at the moment.

✒When someone introduces themselves to you at an event, it’s an opportunity for an exchange of value to occur. Focus your attention on them, and if you need to leave, excuse yourself, thank them, and move on gracefully.

Write Professionally

In this day of email correspondence, it is easy to become too informal. Learn to write a strong, appropriate business letter the old fashioned way and use it in your email. Use of acronyms is rude and unprofessional.

✒When writing email, be sure to address the person by the correct title, and by all means, spell their name right! Proofread it at least three times before you send it and have not her pair of eyes review it, too. You’ll be rewarded with a great, professional first impression!

The Power of the Written Word!

✒Do not underestimate the importance of the written word in communication at a virtual meeting . A poorly written message will have a greater impact on your business.

90% of the time, you can correct your own writing mistakes. Most errors are due to hasty writings, the most important part of the writing is the tone.

If the tone of the message is wrong, the message will be lost on getting to the reader. Please proofread your work and write well.

Communicate Appreciation

✒Spend your time telling your potential client what they do Right and not what they do Wrong! Tell the.m what they do right and they will continue to do right by saying YES!

✒Impress your clients and partners by communicating appreciation. Stating “thank you” will elevate you above competitors. Whether large or small, the gesture will have an impact.

Mind the Talk! – Formal Meeting Rule

If you happen to overhear someone discussing a situation and it is evident that you have a solution, resist the urge to ride to the rescue on the spot…especially if you have not yet met!

It’s a big turn-off and the person you are offering your services to won’t generally be open to hearing what you have to say.

✒Don’t give your sales pitch as if you’re throwing up, i.e. loud, in one breath, and ends with an “aah I’m done” kind of expression… Breath, ask questions, and let others talk too….

Final Words on Formal Meeting Rules

Do not be too casual with your clients. Although it is important to build strong relationships, keep it professional at all times.

Also, like I stated, “Check your attire! Always do your research to be sure you present a relatable visual image to your audience”

However, I have learnt that the guy with the sharp looking suit and big car was all appearance and most times with no money. Now I treat everyone equally, as it should be. So, never disqualify by appearance.

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In Summary, here are the 10 Formal Meeting Rules

  • Mind the Time!
  • Check Your Attire!
  • Silent or Switch Off your Cell Phone!
  • Don’t be Desperate!
  • Master Communication Techniques!
  • Good Gesture!
  • Write Professionally!
  • The Power of the Written Word!
  • Communicate Appreciation!
  • Mind the Talk!

Do you follow any other rules in a formal meeting? Let me know in the comments section below!

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6 Things a Man Can Offer a Woman Who Already Has Money in a Relationship

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A lot of people have been made to believe that money is the only thing a man can offer a woman to keep a lasting relationship.

Well, that may be true to a high degree.

But why the increase in divorce each and every day, globally, even from highly well-to-do relationships, huh?

That’s to show you that money is not the only factor that makes a relationship last longer.

Although, dating in Nigerian now tells us how far a lady can go in dating up to 6 men who give a lot of cash, but that’s not in marriage.

In the age where “true love” between partners seems to be a myth, a well-to-do woman expects even more than money- she already has it, right?

That’s the purpose of this article.

Hey, I’m your John. In this article, I’ll write about 6 things a man can offer a woman who already has her money in a relationship.

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Love and Care

If you love someone , you naturally care for that person, right ?

Caring can have so many forms.

  1. External care: showing affection from the outside like asking her how she is doing, if she wants to go out to a concert.

How she slept last night, hugging her , kissing her and making her feel comfortable and safe.

  1. Internal(silent): taking notes of her health, covering her with a blanket when she is asleep improperly.

Thinking about what lifestyle, job, daily routine would be best for her, thinking about her likes and dislikes

Companionship

Relationships are about companionship, how the other person makes you feel, how you feel with the other person, they are about that warm feeling that makes you happy and content.

#Relationships are about companionship, how the other person makes you feel, how you feel with the other person. Click To Tweet

As most of us learn with time, love is but an idea in our mind, a construct based on the kind of exposures that we have grown up with.

But usually, as most of us again learn with time, healthy relationships are based on the strong foundation of companionship.

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Respect

Respect is a combination of appreciation, admiration and recognition of a person being worth something. It can feel at times esoteric but most people understand respect.

True respect is seeing someone, flaws and all, and still feeling appreciation of their unique talents, gifts and insights. It is not expecting perfection nor is it beating someone into submission.

When we love and respect ourselves we treat others with respect and we receive the same respect in return.

Security (protection)

A secure relationship is one where love flows both directions, simple. One person cannot make a relationship healthy or secure because relationship is a two-way street.

What a secure relationship looks like

  • The people involved do not control each other.
  • The people involved are not jealous or possessive of each other.
  • They do not have to know at every moment where the other person is.
  • They do not check up on phone texts or social media and do not demand an accounting of all the time spent every day.
  • They communicate openly and honestly, even about things the other person might not want to hear.
  • They share their thoughts, feelings, and ideas without fear.
  • They do not judge one another.
  • They accept normal human failings, flaws, and imperfections, and forgive reciprocally one another’s errors.

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Intimacy (sex)

I have read somewhere “Sex is just like money, more you have it, more you need it”.

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Sex is a way that connects two people in a way that they have never experienced before, it builds an indirect relationship between them, just like a bond.

Men often choose a woman based upon the sex and end up falling in love, while women generally choose a man based upon the love they feel, and end up enjoying it.

Studies show that sex solves more problems than real face to face conversations ! in fact I have written something that’ll clear things –

Research shows that sex releases a feel-good chemical in the brain, which reduces stress levels.

Healthy Communication

Communication is vital in any relationship. Think mental togetherness.

Planning together, looking forward together, and facing difficulties together only works when there is mutual agreement.

You can’t build trust without communication. You can’t express love properly without communication (yes actions speak louder than words, but in a relationship words are important too).

Remember they all create impressions and memories that you’ll go back to in future. That’s why they are pillars that need each other to stand and form relationship.

Bottom line

What gives ladies satisfaction and joy in relationship varies. It can be money, sex, time and so on.

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Experiment each of them to see what works for your partner, and continue on the same thread.

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People Say I Love You In a Lot of Different Ways (39 Ways)

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Different Ways People Say I Love You

Looking for some different ways of saying ‘I love you’? You can go for these ways.

There are three ways of saying I love you.

1. Using your vocals i.e actually saying I love you or tweaking the words in other forms.

2. Using your actions to perform for the person you love.

3. Making use of other languages. He/she would be curious to know the meaning…

In the first one , if you don’t have any feeling towards the person, saying I love you means nothing to that person or,

If you have love for that person, which is the size of a sky, saying it means a lot to the person who you love.

From the second one , these actions are made only by the people who are truly in love and can’t express their love towards the person.

But the person you love will definitely understand that you are in love with them and don’t even need to say it vocally.

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People Say “I love You” in Words

If you are planning a proposal, you can go with this one- Give your partner hand-written love notes by hiding them in unsuspecting places for them to find later.

  • You are my Bacon and Eggs.
  • If I had to choose between you or 1 million pies, I would choose you.
  • I have so much love for you that it swept me off my feet.
  • If I started walking, and never stopped, I would still never reach the end of my love for you.
  • I will love you until the sun implodes on itself and the stars rain down upon us.
  • I’ll help you through your hardest times, even if I’m not that good at helping people, I’ll still try.
  • You are the top trending topic in the Twitter feed of my heart.

“Actions speak louder than words” will forever be a true statement.

The best way to say “I love you” is to show it.

At the end of the day words are meaningless if they aren’t backed up with actions.

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How to Express “I love you” In Action to Ladies

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  • When she’s back from work, just treat her with something very simple. It may be with homemade noodles.
  • When she feels tired and wants to sleep, just turn on the fan/ac, cover her up with the blanket and turn off the lights so that she never gets disturbed.
  • Whenever she’s getting pain in her legs/head due to work, just give her a relaxing massage. It’ll help her to reduce the stress.
  • If she’s upset, just hug her and sit beside her so that she will realize your support.
  • Whenever she wants to talk with you but unable to sit on the couch properly then just open up your lap for her comfort.
  • If she gets angry on house works, just tell her to sit and make two cups of coffee or tea for both of you.
  • When you observe her eyes that she clearly wants something but is unable to tell you because it might be expensive, just save your money and gift it for her on her birthday.
  • When she has lots of office work which makes her bored and frustrated, just turn off her laptop or work.

Hold her hands and go for a quick drive or a quick walk under the sky. If possible, buy two ice creams for both of you.

How to Express “I love you” In 24 Languages

MeaningLanguages
S’agapoGreek
Ti amoItalian
Wo le niChinese
Je t’aimeFrench
Te quieroSpanish
Mo ni fee reYoruba
Mahal kitaTagalog
Ya vas liubliuRussian
SzeretlekHungarian
Ina son kaHausa
Ik hou van jouDutch
Jeg elsker digDanish
Ich liebe dichGerman
Taim l’ngra leatIrish
Rwy’n dy garu diWelsh
A hụrụ m gị n’anyaIgbo
Diligam te in saeculaLatin
Kimi o ai shiteruJapanese
Tora dust midaramFarsi
Mina rakastan sinuaFinnish
Bon sro lanh oonCambodian
Ami tomay bhalo bashiBengali
Muhje tumse mohabbat haiUrdu
Hoon tane pyar karoo choonGujarati

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3 Romantic Moments in Relationship and How to Practice Them with Pictures

In this article, I’ve put together 3 of the romantic moments in relationship, and you’ll learn how to practice them.

Any healthy relationship should have these three moments combined. I hope you’d like it.

Let’s get started…

Proposal

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It is very uncommon in everyday life for a man to bow down and ask for anything, especially in Nigeria.

I view it as a moment in which the woman is recognized symbolically for the power she momentarily holds over the man. The power to say yes or no.

So, at the time of proposal, the man bows down to give her respect, surprise (by breaking the daily rule).

He shows her that she is everything for him and I care for you, your value, and respect you from my core heart. Please accept my offer.

And she smiles and says “Wow, I never imagined that, that you really do care for me and my respect, socially. Let me say YES before its too late.” Its all AWW moment.

Then she says yes and everything goes back to normal.

Or she says no and everything goes back to normal.

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How To Do It

Technically, the required posture is down on ONE knee, not both. Just as in the image above.

“It’s a sign of commitment. The woman accept it and every thing is changed forever or you are giving her the freedom to walk away, with nothing changed In her life.”

When To Do It

In reality, most of the relationships get matured enough before a proposal for marriage is made.

Although, it’s an emotional and special moment for each couple.

Both people can handle this with ease without being superfluous in their reactions because they know sooner or later this situation will be coming in the relationship.

Gifting Flowers

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Food is the way to a man’s heart. Flowers are the way to women’s. Or so they say.

Food is the way to a man's heart. Flowers are the ways to women's. Or so they say. Click To Tweet

Flowers may die but they last a lot longer than a dinner date.

One of the most common things that happen in the world is men giving flowers to women.

This has been a common behaviour among people from the different parts of the world since time immemorial.

Flowers are used to appeal to a woman or it is a way of telling her that “I was thinking about you all day and I thought I should let you know through this”.

At the point when a man gives a lady a flower, this goes about as a method of revealing to them they are excellent through activities.

For these reasons, I would give flowers to a woman.

  • Because, I love you.
  • Because, I like you.
  • Because they are beautiful and as such they reminded me of you.
  • Because you have been sad and I thought they might cheer you.
  • Because you haven’t been feeling well and this is all I can do.
  • Because I behaved like a jerk and this is how I’m saying I’m sorry.
  • Because I walked past them and appreciated their smell.
  • Because we had an awesome date and I wanted you to think of me.
  • Because you accomplished something that I wanted to recognize.
  • Because today is an important day for you and I wanted to observe it.

Flowers, they wither sooner or later, but the feeling of being able to receive it is awesome.

Flowers, they wither sooner or later, but the feeling of being able to receive it is awesome Click To Tweet

Anything unexpected is overwhelming, plus the fact that it is your boyfriend or spouse who made an effort on it, is really something.

Men, get your head out of your ass… Women love flowers and they love them most when there is no expectation or reason to give them.


Not convinced? Imagine sitting at home watching TV and unexpectedly a dozen chicken wings showed up with a couple of nice micro brews…..yep that’s flowers to a women!

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Intimacy (Sex)

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In a previous post, Relationship category , among other things, I discussed what sex is, and how it can strengthen your relationship.

Sex is an important aspect of any healthy relationship and if it is regular, it means your partner likes it too.

It is like an insatiable fire and it should be fulfilled.

The unfortunate truth is that sex ruins the majority of relationships because couples do not take the time or opportunity to learn anything about their significant others.

Are you unsure about your sexual interests? Are you curious about what you might enjoy?

Are you wondering whether you are ready for s^x? These kinds of questions are perfectly normal!

Imagine, if couples took the opportunity to learn about each other, even sexually before engaging in intercourse.

They will have full knowledge of their partners and sex. Once it happens, would be a lot better than simply jumping into bed.

Sex in relationships is a good essential part, however, it is not the only part.

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Thanks for reading this far, hope you liked it. Feel free to share other romantic moments in a relationship via the comment.

Also, don’t forget to share this article with someone who needs it.

Love Making Stories After Marriage in Nigeria 3 – Love Lessons

The marriage enviable lesson is the courtesy of Asiwaju Omoniyi Odeyemi a Legal & ADR Practitioner, Nigeria.


Can l love again? Is it a crime to love? Can l be healed of my hurt?

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Please carefully read this story and comment if it is advisable for the victim to love again.

I met Tunji during our service year and we both loved each other. In fact, we lived as couples throughout our service year.

He’s so caring and understanding and this made me to accept his proposal to marry him.

Immediately after my NYSC l got appointment with a manufacturing company in Ibadan as the Company’s Public Relations Officer.

My husband was unable to secure a job but nobody knew who was taking care of who. I loved my husband with everything I had.

My parents knew his predicament and they were also doing everything to ensure that my husband gets a job.

My parents gave me a huge sum of money to give my husband to start a business pending the time he would get a job.

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They also informed me not to let him know that the money came from them.

I gave my husband the money. It was after he received the money that he started misbehaving and coming home drunk with strange friends.

I had to report him to my parents; being prayer warriors, l joined them in praying for my husband.

It was at one of the prayer sessions that it was revealed that my husband was planning to use me for money ritual.

I did not believe until one night when my husband thought l had slept and he wanted to touch my forehead with a fetish idol tied with a red cloth.

l grabbed his hand and contended. He slipped and that gave me the opportunity to run out of the house in the middle of the night to our neighbor’s house.

I forgot to carry my 6 months old baby until the next morning when l begged our neighbor to help me pick my baby.

That was how I left Tunji. I recently met a guy who accepted me and my baby.

He is always there for us but my problem is that I found it difficult to love again and l can see that the guy is getting tired of all my pranks on him.

Please what should I do as l am scared?

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23 Things Men Should Avoid Doing with Real Women at First Meeting

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Have you been rejected and ignored by women? You are at the right place. I have revealed the 23 things men should avoid doing with women at first meeting.

Unlike most men, I haven’t dated a lot of girls, but yes! I’ve missed severally and my heart was once broken.

Yeah, twice! Haha! Don’t pity me.

So in this article, I have put together some of the things that as men, we overlook when trying to approach women at first meeting.

These lists will shock you. So, I enjoin you to sit back, take a cup full of coffee, relax and see for yourself where you’re lagging.

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This data is courtesy of hundreds of women across the globe. So, you might read different voices speaking in this article.

Appearance

  • Unkempt hair
  • Greasy complexion
  • Nostril hairs sticking out
  • Long fingernails with dirt trapped underneath
  • Any hint of body odor and/ or bad breath.

If the guy isn’t making any effort to look nice & smell fresh on the FIRST meeting, you can bet it’s all downhill from there

If a guy isn’t making any effort to look nice & smell fresh on the FIRST meeting, you can bet it’s all downhill from there. Click To Tweet
  • Guys who think they’re owed some form of sexual payoff because they paid for dinner.
  • If the guy acts like he should get sex on the first date or soon after- showing off sexual imposition is an immediate red flag
  • If he attempts to kiss or touch me when I’ve given no indication that I want him to do that.
  • Not listening, interrupting, and wearing a condescending and sarcastic look on his face before I even start talking
  • Checking the phone constantly—if you have somewhere else to be, don’t let me detain you. I, too, could be elsewhere.
  • When a guy asks me out and then has nothing planned- it sends a message that he wants to spend time with me doing whatever comes.
  • Mentioning his ex every 5 minutes. I don’t feel like wasting my time on someone who hasn’t got over his last relationship yet.
  • If a guy has no interest in hearing what I have to say, even if I know a lot more about it than he does.

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  • Not being able to carry on an interesting conversation. If he doesn’t ask anything about me
  • Moving too fast. Talking about wanting a relationship, kids and marriage, at first meeting.
  • Commenting on my looks and outfit in a hurtful way. No way! Offensive comments on other people will end the meeting as well.
  • Expecting too much from me physically. It’s a first date! A side hug is all he should expect and the rest.
  • Not doing what he says he is going to do. If a guy says he is going to do something on the first date and then doesn’t, straight turn off.
  • Talking much of money and trying to get into my finance. I’m not willing to discuss my own paychecks.
  • Drinking too much. Take what you normally drink and cut it in half for the first date. Usually have 2 beers? 1 is good for the meeting.
  • Making me pay the whole bill. It might sound shallow but you’ve at least gotta pay your half.
  • Tells me that he usually doesn’t date fat chicks, but he made an exception for me—and expected me to be grateful
  • A guy who is rude to servers or workers wherever we may go is a huge turn off- an indicator of how you’ll treat me in the future .

Hopefully, you’ve seen those things that made the lady you probably met last month turn you down. You don’t need to feel bad, buddy!

My Advice

Meeting Ladies sometimes is not always about asking them out for relationship.

It is an open atmosphere to create the first impression – who you are and your intentions.

See, I mostly want to have a strong connection with any serious lady I come across because that could create a live-bond.

So, anytime you have a new date or an appointment with a lady, please come back and check out the lists again. You can simply bookmark this page.

Bottom line

“There you go, you now have access to the survey from over 500+ Ladies globally”

Instead of making a lady turn you off at first meeting, get rid of the things that could make that happen and see yourself limitless to endless opportunities.

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3 Sets Of Men You Should Never Consider Marriage With

To a high degree, these 3 sets of men you should never consider marriage with may seem monopolized.

Trust us, we’ve got everything tailored down to our beliefs, no critics meant.

PS: Never rely on information on this website in place of seeking professional medical advice

Narcissist

Narcissists are described as ones with inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.

Narcissists don’t have the ability to perceive others as detached from themselves having separate needs, feelings and desires, and thus they don’t care, and cannot care, about others in a mature, disinterested, unselfish way.

Victims often confuse themselves thinking that if only the person with the personality disorder could be properly cared for or loved, they could improve.

But the problem is the reality of people with personality disorders is fundamentally different, and cannot be altered by being loved.

Narcissism in the vernacular is often not referring to the mentally illness, but certain undesirable traits such as selfishness, arrogance, ignoring others, and so on.

So, there you go. You know what it is and your decision whether to give in for a narcissist or not.

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Atheist

Have you ever met someone who doesn’t believe that there are any gods- so like an anti-religion I suppose. They’re atheists.

The main reason is that many atheists have negative feelings about religious people or people of faith (I don’t like the term religious).

I don’t know how I’d retain a close intimate relationship with a person who feels I’m wasting my time in prayer.

They would have no respect for something that is important to me. I couldn’t talk to them about spiritual things — they have no real interest in it.

That would be a very hard thing to live with and maintain a relationship with. How can you fully love someone when you think their core beliefs are idiotic?

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Sociopath

A sociopath is someone who has a significantly reduced ability to experience empathy, as the result of psychological trauma.

This is a note from a Sociopath


“Mainly I feel disconnected from people. There’s me and then there is them. I don’t feel empathy that often.

I don’t care about others problem unless they interest me. Sometimes, I rarely think(lack of conscience) when I’m manipulating others.

For example, I want to fit into a social circle. I’m happy with lying, degrading others, and overall putting on a “performance” to enter”


All of these may lead to issues in marriage. You may need to see a psychologist if you think you’re in. Hopefully, you’ve learnt something today.

I know a lot of people will need it, perhaps to learn & correct one or two things in their lives, so please don’t hesitate to share to as many.

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