The marriage enviable lesson is the courtesy of Asiwaju Omoniyi Odeyemi, a Legal & ADR Practitioner, Nigeria.
What should l do? Should I continue with Gbotemi or I should consider Tolulope as my new husband?
I am a business woman with outlets in New Gbagi Market, Aleshinloye Market and Dugbe; all in lbadan, Oyo State, Nigeria.
I am 42 years old and l lived in one of the GRAs in the town.
My problem is that I have not been lucky with men, it is always one disappointment or the other.
So, l was advised to seek divine intervention.
My friend introduced me to a prayer mountain in the city where l met Pastor Oluwagbotemi ( Not real name), a self acclaimed man of God.
Initially, our relationship was purely religious which gradually turned into a romantic relationship.
I believed as a man of God, he will be God fearing in his dealings with me, but Gbotemi used me to set up himself and dumped me.
Now l met another man of God who told me that the man that would marry me is someone that is well below my status.
And recently my mechanic, a boy of about 28 years old proposed to me and l asked him where he got the effrontery and the courage to come and be spewing the rubbish.
Hmmn, despite the insults, Tolulope was just begging me to please consider him as he has been “nursing “ the feelings for quite a while.
I have been disappointed by quite a good number of men, age is no longer on my side, and I am afraid of being scammed again.
As l was ruminating on Tolulope’s proposal, Pastor Gbotemi came to my house begging me to forgive him.
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He told me so many things about my friend (Funmi). best friend who was actually dating him before she took me to him.
He also said that everything that happened between them was planned by Funmi, what a friend!
Gbotemi was crying while begging me and I can see that he was remorseful and l didn’t know when l hugged and kissed him.
I still have that feelings for him but l am afraid. Tolulope is not a match to Gbotemi in all ramification.
Gbotemi is tall, handsome, lively, intelligent and the few occasions we have had sex, Gbotemi is a bomb.
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